Sexy Events

Mark your calendars for two fun events March 7-8...

Leather Night -- First Fridays @ Cruisin' in Asbury Pk NJ
Friday March 7, 2008, 10:00 pm - 2:00 am
(This event repeats every month on the first Friday.)
Location: Cruisin' @ 911 Kingsley St, Asbury Park, NJ 07712
Street: 911 Kingsley St,
City State Zip: Asbury Park, NJ 07712
Phone: (732) 776-7002

Notes:
Join us the first Friday of each month for Leather Night @ Cruisin' in Asbury Park, NJ.
Wear your leathers and have a drink on the house.
There's a great crowd of leatherfolk and our admirers and the crowd is growing every month.

Leather Nights are produced by Dragonslair Productions and hosted by spanky, Mr. New Jersey Leather 2008. For info on Cruisin’ check out: www.cruisinthecircuit.com

Kinky Karnival at the Bikestop
Saturday, March 8th @1opm-1am. Charity event including demonstrations for beginners and experienced pigs alike....
The Kinky Karnival is Philadelphia's participation in the CLAW Nation
multiple city tour, and all proceeds from at the event will benefit
Philadelphia's Attic Youth Center, the city's only organization
specifically dedicated to meeting the needs of sexual minority
youth.

7 Months Later

Sometimes I hear a song on the radio that just hits a nerve. As I was out tonight I turned on Sirius and heard "Only Time Will Tell" by Asia....this song meant nothing to me back in the 80s, but now I know exactly what it's about.

You're leaving now
It's in your eyes
there's no disguising it
It really comes as no surprise
to find that you planned it all along

Only time will tell
I see it now
Becomes so clear
Only time will tell - your insincerity
and me all starry eyed
You'd think that I would have known by now

Now, sure as the sun will cross the sky
this lie is over
Lost, like the tears that used to tide
me over

Only time will tell
You're on your own
inside your room
Only time will tell -
You're claiming victory
You were just using me
and there is no one you can use now
Only time wll tell - one
thing is sure . . .

Sunday in NYC

On Sunday a group of friends and I went in to NYC for lunch and some exploring around the Christopher Street area. I was excited to finally visit the NYC Leather Man shop for the first time. I've always wanted to check it out but for a novice it always seemed a little intimidating until now. If you have even a passing interest in Leather or almost any fetish, it's worth checking out the Leather Man. The staff are beyond helpful, professional, knowledgeable..and they make your visit a relaxed and interesting experience. Jake helped me out and answered all of my questions in a way I could understand. I'll be returning, because unfortunately I missed the downstairs section, not realizing all of the wonders it holds. As some of you know I am exploring some new interests and this is one of them. Sunday was another step on the journey.

Asbury will be HOT this weekend!

From Chuck Nankivell, Mr. NJ Leather 2007:
Calling all Bears and Blue Collar Hunks - Asbury Park is the place to be this weekend: Fri Feb 22, Sat Feb 23...

Friday night, Feb 22nd:
Join LeatherBear, Spanky, Mr. NJ Leather 2008 & Dragonslair Productions for a Meet & Greet @ Paradise

Saturday night, Feb 23rd:
Cruisin' hosts Blue Collar! Men in work boots, dirty boys in tight jeans and baseball caps, firemen and the UPS guy. WOOF!
Cruisin'/TheCircuit

There'll be no shortage of hot, hunky men in Asbury Park this weekend! WOOF!

Set Them Free

I spent a lot of time this weekend with my buddy. He's moving out of state next week, so I was happy that we got a chance to see one another. On one hand I'm so sincerely happy for him - on the other hand, I'll really miss seeing him on a regular basis. The mixed emotions are really confusing. It's not often that you meet someone as special as he is. I'm going to focus on sending as much positive energy out to him as I can while he works through his move, and just be the best friend I can over the phone, online and with occasional visits. I'll really miss those hugs and the closeness that he and I shared. I guess Sting was right. If you love someone, set them free.

Ads I Hate Department

This may be the most annoying ad ever created. It's for Cablevision's broadband service. Since I am not working right now, I am home most days and the TV is background noise. This ad comes on twice an hour on almost every channel! It makes me want to throw a brick through the TV....I can't hit the mute button fast enough!

The Gay Judge Show

http://www.judgedavidyoung.com/



OK it seems that no one else knows this show is on, but there is a gay TV judge show! So if you were a little non-plussed by "Judge Judy" then it's time to give 2 snaps up for Judge David Young and his righteous bailiff, Tawya! Here in the NY metro area he comes on weekdays at 11am on channel 9.

The First BHS "What the hell was she thinking" award!

On yesterday's "Today" show, Jane Fonda threw out the "C" word while being interviewed by Meredith Vieira. So I thought Jane was finally recovering from the whole Hanoi Jane thing... and now she goes and uses that word on national television. On the other hand, doesn't she look great? Click the title for the tmz video. (Disclaimer: funny video, but prepare to hear the C-bomb)